Embracing the"We" in Marriage: Transforming "I" Into "Us"
In the intricate tapestry of marriage, the threads of individual identities intertwine to create a unique partnership. At the core of a...
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Why the relationship
center?
Traditional marriage counseling and couples therapy can take years to be effective, if at all. With our revolutionary approach benefits often begin with the first session.
After working with more than 1500 couples we've seen a 90% success rate - for those who take the necessary actions - versus traditional marriage counseling which ONLY has a 30% success rate!
We have a long history of diving deep and helping couples get to the root of their relationship issues and creating relationships that last -- all grounded in cutting-edge science.
5 Reasons We
Get RESULTS!
We use a fusion of Emotional Arousal Theory, Attachment Theory, Social Contract Theory with Nonviolent Communication to make up our comtemporary approach.
Our Method is a type of couples coaching that quickly gets to the heart of what’s happening with conflict, tension and disconnection in your relationship.
It works by cutting out a lot of the confusing talking and arguing about who’s right and instead, looks at what’s really happening in your brain and your emotions when you fight or feel distant and alone.
Our unique approach helps each partner truly see the other person–their hurt, their sadness, their longing. When you feel seen and understood, so much of your frustration melts away–and true connection, emotional security and love begins!
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90 MINUTE SESSIONS
This longer time allows for the in-depth work of Ana's approach.
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EMAIL SUPPORT
Besides your sessions you'll have unlimited access to us via email for additional support & questions.
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VIDEO TAPED SESSIONS
We video record your sessions to provide immediate feedback to you.
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CUSTOMIZED AT HOME LEARNING
In between sessions we design at home learning so you can maximize your time with us.
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PRACTICE SESSIONS
We help you make a Secure-Relationship part of your life by learning the principles then living them. Your practice sessions helps you bridge your understanding from principles to consciousness living.
"Ana Loiselle changed everything for us. We were headed for divorce if we didn't find help fast. We were always fighting over the stupidest things. It was amazing to discover how we were emotionally threatening each other and how to instead soothe the other. We constantly think about what Ana said "soothe not threaten" and this has helped us diffuse so many of our fights. Now that we feel emotionally safe with each other we're becoming good friends and allies. When you understand the science behind this stuff it just clicks and makes it so much easier to do the right thing. We feel so in love again! So can you."
Brandon & Valerie
About
Hi, I'm ana lOISELLE
I'm tthe founder of the Relationship Center. My entire 15 year career has been exclusively focused on relationships, because I’m passionate about helping couples. When my own marriage painfully ended, I decided that distressed couples DESERVED to have someone who was DEVOTED to saving marriages, rather than a therapist just dabbling in it to fill their practice.
Over the past 15+ years I’ve developed a new approach for helping people develop more satisfying relationships. My method translates new discoveries in the fields of relationship science into practical strategies for improving relationships. I’ve trained in or have studied virtually every major approach to couple intervention that exists. While working with me, I’ll draw from the best of these approaches along with unique methods that I have developed to support you.
I’ve helped what seemed to be some of the most broken relationships heal their pain, and restore their love... chances are I can do just the same for you.
You can put your trust in me because of my TRAINING & EXPERIENCE, which go far beyond those of the average counselor and/or coach.
"Ana, we can't thank you enough for helping us turn around our struggling 22 year marriage. A marriage that had grown distant, cold and plagued with bickering we found ourselves saying "there's got to be more." We have since come to understand just how we were pushing the other away. We had stopped being interested in the other and assumed we already knew everything there was to know -- big mistake! You and your team really showed us how to consistently provide what the other needs. We are a testament that your method works! Thank you again for everything."
David & Carol, Florida
“This is one of the best investments my wife and I have ever made! We weren’t having “problems”, but we were not the best at resolving conflict. So my wife and I wanted to take a proactive approach to our relationship and learn new ways to resolve conflict that were productive. Sometimes we would be at a stalemate about a conflict and/or hurt each others feeling in the process or not get a resolution. We’d both been to couples counseling before in our prior marriages and didn’t find it helpful (there were not any practical skills learned that would enable us to take those skills and apply them effectively, nor effective enough that we would not need to return to counseling). Unlike counseling, Ana, has taught us skills that we won’t have to see her very often, maybe just a little “tune-up” from time to time…to me that’s an irresistible proposition.
Don Albuquerque, NM
faq
ARE YOU READY?
Think about this…
what is your relationship problems costing you?
We don’t mean in dollars and cents;
We're talking about the
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emotional pain,
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the sleepless nights,
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how it effects your work,
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the impact on the kids, and
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the stress. Ohh the Stress!
Your relationship right now, rather than being a source of comfort, is stressing you out!
You have to do something. Your situation will not resolve itself.
If you want change; you need to learn NEW ways of interacting. You need to do things differently!
If you don’t, you may live in constant stress and insecurity and look back one day and wonder how it could have been different -- had you only gotten the right help at the right time.
This is the time!
Let's Get To Work!
Regardless of the particulars of your issues, if you want to save your marriage…if you want to relieve your pain and bring love back to your relationship . . . this is your chance! Ana's approach has proven itself to be MORE EFFECTIVE than traditional marriage counseling.
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